PROCRASTINATION: TEN WAYS TO "DO IT NOW"
from Virginia tech
Division of Student Affairs.
We've all been plagued by procrastination at one time or another.
For some, it's
a chronic problem. Others find that it hits only some areas of
their lives. The net
results, though, are usually the same - wasted time, missed opportunities,
poor
performance, self-deprecation, or increased stress.
Procrastination is letting the low-priority tasks get in the way
of high-priority
ones. It's socializing with colleagues when you know that important
work project
is due soon, watching TV instead of doing your household chores,
or talking
about superficial things with your partner rather than discussing
your
relationship concerns.
We all seem to do fine with things we want to do or enjoy doing
for fun. But,
when we perceive tasks as difficult, inconvenient, or scary,
we may shift into our
procrastination mode. We have very clever ways of fooling ourselves.
See how
many of the following excuses hit home for you:
I'll wait until I'm in the mood to do it.
It's OK to celebrate ... besides, I'll start my diet (sobriety) tomorrow.
My health problem isn't that bad. Time will heal this pain.
There's plenty of time to get it done.
Why does the boss give us so much to do? It's not fair.
It's too hard to talk about. I don't know where to begin.
I work better under pressure so I don't need to do it right now.
I've got too many other things to do first.
Once exposed, these self-defeating statements don't sound so convincing.
But,
when we privately tell ourselves these excuses, they seem quite
believable.
Don't be fooled by how innocent they sound. They get us to postpone
important tasks and duties.
CAUSES
Procrastination is a bad habit. Like other habits, there are two
general causes.
The first is the "crooked thinking" we employ to justify our
behavior. The second
source is our behavioral patterns.
A closer look at our crooked thinking reveals three major issues
in delaying
tactics - perfectionism, inadequacy, and discomfort. Those who
believe they
must turn in the most exemplary report may wait until all available
resources
have been reviewed or endlessly rewrite draft after draft. Worry
over producing
the perfect project prevents them from finishing on time. Feelings
of inadequacy
can also cause delays. Those who "know for a fact" that they
are incompetent
often believe they will fail and will avoid the unpleasantness
of having their skills
put to the test. Fear of discomfort is another way of putting
a stop to what
needs to be done. Yet, the more we delay, the worse the discomforting
problem
(like a toothache) becomes.
Our behavioral patterns are the second cause. Getting started
on an unpleasant
or difficult task may seem impossible. Procrastination is likened
to the physics
concept of inertia - a mass at rest tends to stay at rest. Greater
forces are
required to start change than to sustain change. Another way
of viewing it is
that avoiding tasks reinforces procrastination which makes it
harder to get
things going. A person may be stuck, too, not by the lack of
desire, but by not
knowing what to do. Here are some things to break the habit.
Remember, don't
just read them, do them!
REMEDIES
1. Rational Self-Talk. Those old excuses really don't hold up
to rational
inspection. The "two-column technique" will help. Write down
all your excuses
on one side of a piece of paper. Start challenging the faulty
reasoning behind
each of the excuses. Write down your realistic thoughts on the
opposite side of
each excuse. Here are two examples of excuces and realistic thoughts.
EXCUSE: I'm not in the mood right now. REALISTIC THOUGHT: Mood
doesn't
do my work, actions do. If I wait for the right mood, I may never
get it done.
EXCUSE::I'm just lazy. REALISTIC THOUGHT: Labeling myself as
lazy only
brings me down. My work is really separate from who I am as a
person. Getting
started is the key to finishing.
2. Positive Self-Statements. Incorporate a list of self-motivating
statements into
your repertoire of thoughts. Consider ...
"There's no time like the present."
"The sooner I get done, the sooner I can play."
"There's no such thing as perfectionism. It's an illusion that
keeps me from
doing what I have to do right now."
"It's cheaper and less painful if I do it now rather than wait until
it gets worse."
3. Don't Catastrophe. Jumping to the conclusion that you will
fail or that you are
no good at something will only create a wall of fear that will
stop you cold.
Recognize that your negative predictions are not facts. Focus
on the present
and what positive steps you can take toward reaching your goals.
4. Design Clear Goals. Think about what you want and what needs
to be done.
Be specific. If it's getting that work project completed by the
deadline, figure out
a time table with realistic goals at each step. Keep your sights
within reason.
Having goals too big can scare you away from starting.
5. Set Priorities. Write down all the things that need to be done
in order of their
importance. The greater the importance or urgency, the higher
their priority. Put
"messing around" (distractions) in its proper place - last! Start
at the top of the
list and work your way down.
6. Partialize the Tasks. Big projects feel overwhelming. Break
them down into
the smallest and most manageable subparts. You'll get more done
if you can do
it piece by piece. For example, make an outline for a written
report before you
start composing or do a small portion of the chores rather than
all at once.
Partializing works especially well with the unpleasant jobs.
Most of us can handle
duties we dislike as long as they're for a short time and in
small increments.
7. Get Organized. Have all your materials ready before you begin
a task. Use a
daily schedule and have it with you all the time. List the tasks
of the day or week
realistically. Check off the tasks when you have completed them.
8. Take a Stand. Commit yourself to doing the task. Write yourself
a "contract"
and sign it. Better still, tell a friend, partner, or supervisor
about your plans.
9. Use Prompts. Write reminders to yourself and put them in conspicuous
places like on the TV, refrigerator, bathroom mirror, front door,
and car
dashboard. The more we remember, the greater the likelihood we'll
follow
through with our plans.
10. Reward Yourself. Self-reinforcement has a powerful effect
on developing a
"do it now" attitude. Celebrate, pat yourself on the back, smile,
and let yourself
enjoy the completion of even the smallest of tasks. Don't minimize
your
accomplishments. Remember, you're already that much closer to
finishing those
things that need to be done. Go ahead, get started ... NOW!
This information was written by Kent T. Yamauchi, Ph.D.
Reproduced from: Innovations in Clinical Practice:
A Source Book (Vol. 6) by P.A. Keller and S. R. Heyman
(Eds.), Sarasota, FL: Professional Resource Exchange, Inc.
Copyright 1987 by the Professional Resource Exchange, Inc.,
PO. Box 15560, Sarasota, FL 34277-1560.